"Earning Feathers"
Good morning, Friends! How was your week? Can you believe that Valentine's Day is one week from today? Do you have any special plans? I have a dinner date with The Mister.
Did you enjoy this week's lesson? It was a tough one emotionally. I enjoyed Farrell's metaphor of the peacock eating thorns in order to create, or "earn," his beautiful feathers. I admit that I have a love/hate relationship with peacocks. My great-grandmother had them on her property, and facing a three to four feet tall hissing bird with massive plumage is downright frightening. I can remember running as fast as I could from the car to her front porch, praying that one of those scary birds would not round the corner of the house and run after me. I'm surprised a woman as practical as my great-grandmother would raise peafowl: they are strictly ornamental and inedible.
I also appreciated how she references Flannery O'Connor, one of my favorite Southern writers. I intentionally took classes in both undergraduate and graduate school just because her stories were on the syllabi. She often used the peacock as a symbol for Christ, and she suffered during her lifetime as she battled lupus. She fascinates me because she not only felt "freakish" from the ravages of lupus, but also because she felt like a freak for being a Catholic in the Rural Protestant Deep South. Most of her stories had a freakish character or two in them
This lesson is all about how we can live "soulfully" when the wheels come off the wagon. The bad always comes: No one is immune. Farrell's suggestion for how we should respond to life's difficult times is to minister to those who are struggling more than we are. Didn't you just LOVE her examples of how to help others as they suffer? This book is definitely becoming more of a reference book, isn't it! I will definitely refer to her Tips for Helping Others Through Suffering List.
When I was going through cancer treatment, cards meant more to me than anything. I displayed them on a rod in my art studio, and I would re-read them all the time. I received a couple on bad days, and I set them aside and opened them later. I kept all the cards and notes from that time as a reminder of the kindness of my friends, and how I, too, want to be an encourager.
Which one of Farrell's tips did you think was the best one?
Here are the Bible verses from this week's lesson:
Often times we are so overwhelmed with grief and sorrow we don't know how to pray. Below is a snippet from The Book of Common Prayer that you can pray or share with others.
Below is another share from my Bible teacher Betty. It is a quote from Joyce Rupp.
The Holy one has created each of usas a wonderful human beingwith something specialwe are meant to share with our world.Think of the simple yet significant thingsothers have done for youbecause they were donewith kindness and consideration.Recognize and accept the beautyof who you are in God's eyesand do something with love today.
Prayer Requests
- Pray for our military securing and protecting our southern border.
- Praise Report from Carla: The Wisconsin National Guard that was deployed to Iraq are home.
- Carla's parents appointments went well. They are pleased with their new doctor, and she is helping them feel better.
- Pray for Kitty's son Mike to get a job that uses his talents.
- Pray for the Americans displaced by the derailment (East Palestine, OH), fires (Maui and California) and Hurricane Helene (East Tennessee and Western North Carolina). Pray that they will receive the help they need to rebuild.
- Pray for Kitty's grandson Connor, that he will find a path to follow and good relationships.
- Carla requests that we pray for Trump's cabinet, and his picks will be confirmed quickly.
- Pray for our daughter Shanley Belle as her post doc is coming to an end. She is in the midst of a job search. Please pray for God's guidance in her next step.
- Please continue to pray for the victims of the tragic plane and helicopter collision in Washington, D.C.
- Carla is running for Trustee for her local Village Board. The election is April 1st. Let's be in prayer that Carla can continue to be the change she wants to see in her village.
It has been a beautiful week here in Central Alabama. I have spring fever, and I want to do something spring-y. I might go to my favorite nursery today and see what's up.
Have a blessed weekend and week!
Until next time...
Blessings!
Ricki Jill
Ricki Jill
I have discovered that through suffering, that will all have at one time or another, we eventually experience joy. All of Farrell’s tips were meaningful in helping others. I often send texts with an image to let someone know that I’m thinking about them.
ReplyDeleteHappy weekend to all of you and prayers be with you.
I have often found in times of others' suffering, I feel stagnant. I try to send cards, texts and even cook a meal timely, but sometimes I'm just not. I think the bottom line is to somehow eventually acknowledge others' suffering, and show up in one way or another, even if it feels late.
ReplyDeleteWe had some crazy weather this past week, and I am feeling some stress over an upgrade to a phone and doing taxes. Not a good combination, and these things combined are just another reason why I hope spring comes soon.
Acknowledging everyone's prayers and praises, happy weekend to all.
Hi, I liked how she shared that simple text .. "Praying for Charlie" each day that she received from her friend was just what she needed so many times.
ReplyDeleteFor me Sam's deployments are always stressful. I am thankful for all the prayers for Sam and for us as a family. It means a lot. And on stressful days, when I knew he was out on a mission "evacuating Sudan" ... I would also re read the cards from friends and loved ones.
Your peacock story made me laugh.
I too like Flannery O Connor ... have you watched any movies made about her?
Hello sweet friend. I think when we have our darkest and suffering little acts of kindness show us that we are not alone. I have always believed that God puts people in our paths for a reason. To help us, teach us, love us during the good and the hardest of times. Peacocks are beautiful but I can see where you could be afraid of them as a child. Wishing you a beautiful week. Hugs. Kris
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